Category: Tutoring Advice

Practical advice for parents choosing an English tutor, understanding how online tutoring works, and supporting their child’s English learning at home.

  • How to Prepare Your Child for Online Learning: A Practical Guide

    Online learning has become a normal part of many children’s education — but it’s not quite the same as sitting in a classroom, and children who flourish in it aren’t simply those who happen to adapt naturally. With a little preparation, almost any child can get as much from an online lesson as from a face-to-face one. Here’s what parents can do.

    Create a Dedicated Learning Space

    The single most impactful thing you can do is give your child a consistent, distraction-free place to learn. This doesn’t need to be a home office — a cleared kitchen table, a bedroom desk, or even a corner of the living room works fine. What matters is that it’s consistently used for learning, and that during online sessions it doesn’t double as the place where younger siblings are playing or where the TV is on.

    Good lighting (facing a window, not backlit by one) and a stable internet connection are worth prioritising. Frozen video and choppy audio are genuinely disruptive to learning, not just mildly annoying.

    Sort the Technology in Advance

    Before the first session:

    • Test the video platform your tutor uses (Zoom, Google Meet, Teams) — ideally do a brief test call
    • Check that your child’s microphone works clearly and that their camera shows their face, not the ceiling
    • Have a backup plan for poor internet — a phone hotspot, or a prearranged way of rescheduling if connection drops entirely

    Technology problems at the start of a session eat into learning time and are stressful for everyone. A twenty-minute check the day before avoids most of them.

    Build the Habit of Camera On

    Children who learn with their camera off are less engaged — and good tutors teach differently when they can see their students. Encourage your child to have their camera on from the start. It becomes normal quickly, and the quality of the session improves noticeably when the tutor can see whether a student is confused, distracted, or has understood.

    Reduce Background Distractions

    Other devices are the biggest distraction during online sessions. Phones should be in another room or face-down and silenced. Social media notifications should be off. If your child is on a laptop, other tabs should be closed. This isn’t about distrust — it’s about helping them build the focus habits that will serve them in any learning context.

    Talk About What Online Learning Is Like

    Children who’ve never done online learning sometimes feel awkward in the first session — the dynamic is unfamiliar, it can feel strange to talk to a screen, and the social cues are slightly different. A quick conversation beforehand (“It might feel a bit different at first — that’s normal, it gets easier”) normalises the strangeness and reduces first-session anxiety.

    Also reassure them that it’s completely fine to say “I don’t understand” or “could you explain that again?” online — perhaps more fine than in a classroom, since there are no peers watching.

    After the Session

    Ask a simple question when they finish: “What was the most useful thing from today?” This consolidates learning, signals that you’re interested, and gives you a window into whether the sessions are working. You don’t need to quiz them — just a brief conversation that treats the learning as real and worth reflecting on.


    All Thorogood English sessions are online via Zoom — and we’re happy to do a free no-pressure trial so your child can get comfortable with the format before committing. Join the waiting list for January 2027.

  • Is Online Tutoring as Effective as Face-to-Face? The Evidence

    The question parents ask most often before signing their child up for online tutoring is some version of: “But isn’t face-to-face better?” It’s an instinctive response — in-person feels more real, more direct, more human. Surely being in the same room is better than being on a screen?

    The short answer, based on both research and the experience of tutors and students who’ve worked in both modes: online tutoring is as effective as face-to-face, and in several specific respects more convenient.

    What the Research Shows

    Multiple studies since 2020 have found no significant difference in learning outcomes between online and face-to-face tuition when the quality of teaching is equivalent. The factor that matters most is not the medium but the quality of instruction, the frequency of practice, and the quality of feedback. A brilliant teacher online outperforms an adequate teacher in person — every time.

    What Online Does Particularly Well

    Shared documents: Online tutoring often involves sharing documents in real time — both teacher and student can see the same text, the teacher can annotate, highlight, and add comments as the session progresses. This is often more efficient than looking at a single physical page together.

    Written feedback: Feedback on written work happens between sessions, asynchronously. The teacher marks at their own pace and returns detailed written comments before the next session — often more thorough than marking done hurriedly in the last five minutes of a face-to-face session.

    No travel time: A session with a tutor ten minutes away involves twenty minutes of travel. A Zoom session starts at the scheduled time and ends there. For students who are tired after school or have busy schedules, this matters.

    Access to the best teachers: Online removes geography as a constraint. You’re not limited to tutors who happen to live nearby — you can work with the most qualified and experienced teacher for your child’s specific needs, wherever they are.

    What Takes Adjustment

    Some students find online tutoring slightly harder to engage with at first, particularly those who are easily distracted or who struggle with screen-based work. The habits that help — a dedicated workspace, cameras on during the session, other devices closed — make a significant difference and are worth establishing from the start.

    The Bottom Line

    Online tutoring is not a compromise version of face-to-face. It is a different mode of delivery with its own advantages, minor challenges, and a large body of evidence showing equivalent outcomes when done well. What matters is the quality of the teacher, the consistency of the practice, and the quality of the feedback — none of which require physical presence in the same room.


    Thorogood English is fully online — designed that way deliberately, so that families anywhere in the world can access excellent specialist English teaching. Join the waiting list for January 2027.

  • Home Education and IGCSE English: A Complete Guide for Families

    Home education is growing rapidly in the UK and internationally, and navigating public examinations — particularly IGCSE, the qualification most commonly used by home-educated students — is one of the most common challenges families face. Here is a practical guide to everything you need to know about sitting Cambridge IGCSE English as a private candidate.

    Why IGCSE Rather Than GCSE?

    Standard GCSE exams in England are primarily designed for school-based candidates and are difficult for private candidates to access. Cambridge IGCSE is specifically designed to be internationally available to private candidates — sat through registered exam centres worldwide, marked centrally by Cambridge, and fully recognised by UK universities as equivalent to standard GCSE.

    Finding an Exam Centre

    Private candidates register through an approved Cambridge exam centre — you cannot sit directly through Cambridge without one. In the UK, a growing number of centres accept private candidates for IGCSE. The Cambridge International website has a “find a centre” tool; the Home Education Advisory Service also maintains lists of centres that work with home-educated students. Contact centres early — some have limited capacity for private candidates and fill quickly.

    Outside the UK, Cambridge exam centres exist in most countries. For families in Malaysia, Singapore, Hong Kong, and the UAE, international schools and registered test centres typically offer Cambridge IGCSEs and can accept private candidates.

    Exam Series and Deadlines

    Cambridge IGCSE runs two main exam series each year: May/June and October/November. English Language (0500) is typically available in both series. Registration deadlines are usually several months before the exam — often October or November for May/June sittings. Do not leave this late.

    Preparation: What Home-Educated Students Actually Need

    The most common gap for home-educated students is exam technique, not general English ability. Students can be strong readers and writers who nevertheless underperform on IGCSE because they haven’t been taught what each question type specifically requires — the precise techniques that gain marks on the summary question, the directed writing, the language analysis.

    A qualified tutor who knows the Cambridge IGCSE specifically — ideally a former examiner — provides the exam-focused teaching that textbooks alone can’t replicate. Weekly small-group sessions with individual written feedback typically produce significant improvement over a 6–12 month preparation period.

    Free Resources to Use

    • Past papers and mark schemes: Free on the Cambridge International website. Use them systematically — timed, marked against the scheme, carefully reviewed.
    • Examiner reports: Published alongside mark schemes. These tell you exactly what candidates did well and badly each year — patterns that repeat and mistakes that can be avoided.
    • Cambridge-endorsed textbooks: More useful than generic revision guides because they’re organised around the actual exam structure and question types.

    Thorogood English works with home-educated students in the UK and internationally. Jacqueline is a former Cambridge examiner whose IGCSE English groups are suitable for private candidates anywhere in the world. Join the waiting list for January 2027 — or get in touch with questions.

  • How to Use Cambridge IGCSE Past Papers Effectively

    Cambridge IGCSE past papers are one of the best revision resources available — and they’re free. Cambridge publishes papers, mark schemes, and examiner reports for most IGCSE subjects going back several years. Yet many students use them badly — rushing through papers without reviewing them, or treating them as a performance check rather than a learning tool.

    Here’s how to use them properly.

    Where to Find Them

    The Cambridge International website provides past papers and mark schemes for free. Search “Cambridge IGCSE English Language past papers” and you’ll find resources going back at least five years for most exam sessions. Make sure you’re using the right variant — Cambridge IGCSE English Language 0500 is the most common, but there’s also 0990 (a different version) — and the right exam session (May/June or October/November, depending on when your child sits).

    Do the Paper Under Real Conditions First

    Before you look at the mark scheme, do the paper. This is essential — the value of a past paper comes from genuine practice, not reading it while simultaneously checking what the right answers are. Sit somewhere quiet, time yourself accurately, and work through the paper as if it were the real exam.

    This means no notes, no help, no pausing the clock. The time pressure is a significant part of what the exam tests, and students who practise without it are practising something different from the real exam.

    Mark It Yourself — Carefully

    Mark your own paper against the mark scheme, but do it properly. The Cambridge mark scheme for English includes descriptors for different mark ranges, not just a list of right answers — because English often has multiple valid responses. Read the descriptors for each question and assess honestly which band your response falls into and why.

    This process of self-assessment is itself valuable — it trains the metacognitive skill of being able to evaluate your own work against the standard, which is exactly what you need to do in the exam to check and improve your answers before submission.

    Read the Examiner Report

    Cambridge publishes an Examiner Report for each paper — a document in which senior examiners describe what candidates did well, what common mistakes occurred, and what distinguished high-scoring responses from weaker ones. These reports are extraordinarily useful and almost nobody reads them.

    The examiner report tells you exactly what the examiners found frustrating about that year’s responses — and these patterns repeat year on year. If the 2022 examiner report says “too many candidates copied directly from the source text in the summary question,” that’s a mistake to avoid. If it says “stronger responses offered a specific explanation of the effect of the language choice rather than simply naming the technique,” that’s direct guidance on what a high-scoring answer looks like.

    Don’t Do Papers in Chronological Order

    Use the most recent papers last — save them for timed practice closest to the exam, when your skills are most developed and the practice most closely resembles real conditions. Use older papers earlier, when you can afford to approach them with less urgency and more attention to review and learning.

    Vary Your Use

    Not every past paper needs to be done as a full timed paper. You can use individual questions for targeted practice — doing ten summary questions from ten different papers is very efficient practice for summary specifically. You can use reading sections as analytical reading practice, without doing the questions at all. You can use directed writing prompts as standalone writing exercises. The papers are versatile resources; you don’t have to use them only one way.


    At Thorogood English, past papers are used systematically throughout the IGCSE English course — done under conditions, marked carefully, and followed up with individual feedback. Join the waiting list for January 2027 classes.

  • How Long Does It Take to Improve in IGCSE English? A Realistic Timeline

    One of the most common questions parents ask before starting tutoring is: “How quickly will I see results?” It’s a fair question, and the honest answer is: it depends — but not randomly. Here’s what the timeline of improvement in IGCSE English actually looks like, and what determines how quickly it happens.

    What Kind of Improvement Are We Talking About?

    There are different kinds of improvement, and they happen at different speeds.

    Understanding what the exam requires — knowing the structure, the question types, what each mark scheme rewards — can happen in the first one or two sessions. This is knowledge, and knowledge transfers quickly. A student who doesn’t understand that the summary question requires their own words, and learns that they do, has already eliminated one of the most common and costly mistakes.

    Technique improvement — being able to apply a skill (language analysis, directed writing form, summary transformation) — usually shows measurable progress within four to eight weeks of focused practice with feedback. The key word is “feedback”: practice without feedback doesn’t improve anything; practice with specific, targeted feedback does.

    Automatic, fluent performance — the kind that shows up reliably under time pressure in an exam — takes longer. Skills need to be practised enough that they’re available under pressure, not just in a comfortable low-stakes environment. This typically means three to six months of regular practice for the improvement to be stable enough to show up consistently in timed conditions.

    What Determines How Fast Improvement Happens?

    The Gap Between Current Level and Target

    A student at grade D aiming for a B needs to make more progress than a student at grade B aiming for an A. The former may need to address fundamental misunderstandings (about what the exam asks, about how to structure a paragraph, about what language analysis means); the latter needs to refine skills that are already basically in place. Refinement is faster than repair.

    How Much the Student Does Between Sessions

    A student who attends one weekly session and does nothing between sessions will improve much more slowly than a student who attends one weekly session and reads their feedback carefully, writes one additional piece of practice writing, and reads for 20 minutes daily. The session is the teaching; the practice is the learning. Both are required.

    Whether the Improvement Targets Are Specific

    Vague improvement goals — “get better at English” — produce vague improvement. Specific goals — “stop losing marks on the summary question by eliminating lifted phrasing,” “improve language analysis responses so every point explains an effect, not just names a technique” — produce targeted progress that shows up in marks.

    Realistic Milestones

    • 2–4 weeks: Student understands exam structure, knows what each question type requires, has identified their specific weak areas
    • 6–8 weeks: Specific techniques beginning to improve measurably; written feedback being acted upon; some progress visible in practice paper scores on targeted question types
    • 3–4 months: Consistent improvement across most question types; writing showing more control and range; timed performance beginning to approach desired standard
    • 5–6 months: Skills sufficiently automatic to perform reliably under exam conditions; student can explain what they’re doing and why, not just apply templates

    These are general patterns — individual students will vary. Some students see rapid early gains when they fix one fundamental misunderstanding that was costing lots of marks across all questions. Others make steady, incremental progress across all areas simultaneously. Both routes work; neither is instant.


    Thorogood English opens for January 2027 — giving students 6+ months of preparation before most IGCSE May/June exam sessions. Join the waiting list to secure a place for your child.

  • IGCSE English Language vs Literature: Which Does Your Child Need?

    Many parents assume “IGCSE English” is one subject. In fact, it’s two distinct qualifications — English Language and English Literature — with different content, different skills, and different university requirements. Understanding which your child needs (and whether they should take both) is important for planning their education.

    IGCSE English Language

    IGCSE English Language tests reading comprehension and writing skills using non-fiction source texts. You read articles, reports, letters, travel writing, and other forms of real-world prose — and you answer questions about them: retrieval questions, inference and analysis questions, summary questions. You also produce your own writing: directed pieces in specific forms (letters, articles, speeches) and creative writing.

    English Language is the qualification that most universities specify as a requirement. When a university says “GCSE/IGCSE English at grade C or above,” they almost always mean Language. It demonstrates fundamental communication competence — the ability to read accurately, write clearly, and adapt your writing to purpose and audience.

    Best for: All students. IGCSE English Language is a near-universal requirement and the foundation of any further English qualification.

    IGCSE English Literature

    IGCSE English Literature tests close reading and essay writing using prose fiction, poetry, and drama. You study set texts, develop an analytical response to them, and demonstrate the ability to write discursively about literary ideas — character, theme, language, structure, context. You’ll also encounter unseen texts (usually an unseen poem) that you haven’t studied.

    English Literature is not a universal requirement, but it’s the natural companion qualification for students who read widely, think analytically, and are likely to continue studying English or humanities subjects at A-Level. It develops different skills from Language — the ability to construct extended literary arguments — that are highly valued in academic and professional contexts.

    Best for: Students who enjoy reading, are considering A-Level English Literature or Language, or are applying to competitive academic environments where two English qualifications signal strong literacy.

    Can Students Take Both?

    Yes, and many students do. Taking both Language and Literature is very common, and the qualifications complement each other well: Language develops the analytical reading and precision writing skills that Literature requires; Literature develops the sustained argument and textual engagement that benefits Language writing.

    The time commitment of studying both should be considered — each qualification has its own set texts, question types, and revision needs. But for students with a genuine interest in English and the academic capacity, doing both is worthwhile and creates a stronger foundation for A-Level study than either alone.

    The Short Answer

    If your child can only do one: IGCSE English Language. It’s the qualification that universities require, and it’s the one that demonstrates the broadest literacy skills. If your child is capable and interested: consider both. And if there’s any question about A-Level English in the future, Language is the more directly useful of the two for A-Level English Language; Literature is equally important for A-Level Literature study.


    Thorogood English offers both IGCSE English Language and IGCSE English Literature. Get in touch if you’d like to discuss which is right for your child — or join the waiting list for January 2027 classes.

  • IGCSE English Grade Boundaries: What A*, A, B and C Actually Mean

    IGCSE English grades — A*, A, B, C, D, E, F, G — are often discussed without a clear understanding of what they represent in practice. What marks do you actually need? How are grade boundaries set? And how much does each grade really matter?

    Here’s a clear explanation of how IGCSE English grading works.

    How Grade Boundaries Are Set

    Cambridge IGCSE does not use fixed mark thresholds for each grade. Instead, grade boundaries are set after each exam sitting by a team of senior examiners who review the mark distribution and the quality of work at different mark levels. This means the exact mark you need for an A in any given year depends on how all candidates performed that year — grade boundaries vary slightly between exam sessions.

    Cambridge publishes grade threshold documents for every exam session, which show the minimum mark required for each grade on each paper. These are publicly available and worth studying when preparing for the exam.

    What the Grades Represent

    In broad terms, here’s what each grade range represents in terms of exam performance:

    • A* (the highest grade): Consistently excellent performance across all components. In English Language: strong language analysis with specific, well-developed effects; directed writing that demonstrates clear form awareness and consistent register; creative writing with real craft; summary that is accurate, concise, and expressed in genuinely the student’s own words.
    • A: Very strong performance with occasional inconsistency. The analysis is good but may not always sustain depth; directed writing is largely appropriate but register or form may slip; creative writing is effective but may not surprise or take the risks that A* work does.
    • B: Solid, competent performance. Questions are understood and answered relevantly; technique is applied reasonably well but often at surface level; writing demonstrates control but lacks the precision and range of vocabulary of higher grades.
    • C: Adequate performance demonstrating basic skills. Some questions may be answered partially or with limited development; language analysis tends to identify features without explaining effects well; writing is adequate but may have errors in sentence structure or punctuation.
    • D and below: Partial achievement of the assessment objectives. Questions may be misunderstood or answered with limited relevance; analysis may be very surface-level; writing may have significant technical errors that obscure meaning.

    How Much Does the Grade Matter?

    For university entry to UK universities, IGCSE English Language at grade C (or grade 4 equivalent) is typically a minimum requirement. Many competitive courses require a B or A. A* in IGCSE English Language signals strong communication skills and is valued by universities and employers as a marker of genuine literacy.

    For A-Level English specifically, most sixth forms and colleges require at least a B in IGCSE English Language to take the A-Level. Some ask for an A.

    The Difference Between a B and an A

    In practice, the difference between a B and an A in IGCSE English usually comes down to one or two specific skills. The most common are: language analysis depth (B answers name and quote; A answers explain the specific effect of the specific language choice), summary accuracy (B answers include some paraphrase but also some lifted phrasing; A answers are consistently in the student’s own words), and directed writing register (B answers are broadly appropriate but may slip; A answers sustain the correct register throughout).

    These are all learnable, improvable skills. The gap between a B and an A is not usually talent — it’s technique, consistently applied.


    At Thorogood English, every student’s target grade is discussed at the outset — and the specific skills that need developing to reach it are identified and addressed directly. Join the waiting list for January 2027 classes.

  • How to Prepare for 11+ English at Home: Activities That Actually Help

    Whether you’re supplementing a tutor or doing all the preparation at home, the activities you do with your child outside formal sessions can make a significant difference to their 11+ English performance. Here are the most effective ones — all practical, none requiring specialist knowledge.

    Read Together Daily

    The single most high-impact activity. Read aloud to your child even if they’re a confident independent reader — the texts you choose together will typically be more challenging and more varied than what they’d choose alone, and reading aloud is an excellent way to encounter new vocabulary in context.

    When you encounter an unfamiliar word, don’t just define it. Ask your child to guess the meaning from context first. Then confirm or correct, and use the word in a sentence yourself. This contextual vocabulary building is exactly what the 11+ tests in its reading comprehension section — inferring meaning from context.

    Play Word Games

    Vocabulary games are not frivolous preparation — they are preparation. Scrabble, Bananagrams, and similar tile games build word knowledge and spelling at the same time. “Word of the day” rituals — one new word at breakfast, reviewed at dinner — add up to 365 words a year and cost nothing. Cryptic crosswords (with assistance) build lateral thinking about word meanings that translates directly to comprehension skills.

    The key is making vocabulary building feel like something you do together, as a family habit, rather than something imposed as additional schoolwork. Children who associate learning new words with family fun acquire vocabulary at a very different rate from children who encounter it only in formal drill.

    Write Together — Not Just Separately

    Try a shared writing exercise: both parent and child write a short piece on the same prompt, then compare. This models that writing is something adults do and find engaging, normalises the experience of different people approaching the same task differently, and gives your child the rare experience of seeing their parent struggle and try and revise. That last point matters: many children believe good writers write perfectly the first time. Watching a parent cross things out and try again is a more honest representation of the writing process.

    Use Past Papers — But Mark Them Properly

    Past papers are freely available for most 11+ English exams, and they’re the closest thing to practising the real thing. But they’re only useful if they’re marked and reviewed properly — not just ticked or crossed, but discussed: “What did this question ask for? What did you write? What does the mark scheme say was expected? Where was the gap?”

    This review process is where the learning actually happens. A paper done and put away teaches very little. A paper done, marked, discussed, and followed up on is genuinely instructive.

    Talk About What Your Child Reads and Watches

    Discussing stories, characters, and plots — whether from books, films, or television — builds the analytical habits that 11+ comprehension tests. Questions like “Why do you think that character did that?” or “Did that ending feel right to you?” aren’t just conversation — they’re training for inference and interpretation.

    The goal isn’t formal discussion. It’s the habit of paying attention to storytelling — noticing how things are constructed, forming opinions about them, being prepared to say why you think something and hear a different view. These habits transfer directly to reading comprehension tasks that ask for inference and character analysis.


    Thorogood English’s 11+ English groups open January 2027. Join the waiting list to be first to know when bookings open.

  • Online English Tutoring in Malaysia: What Expat Families Need to Know

    Malaysia is home to a significant and growing population of British and international families, many of whose children are preparing for Cambridge IGCSE exams. If you’re one of those families, you’ve probably encountered the challenge of finding English tuition that specifically matches the Cambridge syllabus, taught by someone who knows the exam from the inside.

    Here’s what you need to know about English tuition options in Malaysia — and why online has become the preferred choice for many expat families.

    The Challenge of Finding Cambridge-Specific English Tuition

    Malaysia has a wide range of tutoring centres and private tutors, but not all of them specialise in the Cambridge IGCSE specifically. Cambridge IGCSE English Language has particular question types, mark schemes, and assessment objectives that differ from Malaysian SPM English, from American curriculum English, and even from Edexcel International GCSE English. A tutor who teaches “GCSE English” without specific Cambridge knowledge may not be teaching the right skills for your child’s exam.

    For Language specifically, the Cambridge mark scheme rewards very particular techniques — the way summary writing is assessed, the specific requirements of the directed writing forms, the language analysis approach — that teachers who know the exam from experience handle with a confidence that others can’t replicate.

    Why Online Is Often the Better Choice

    Access to Cambridge-qualified, experienced IGCSE English teachers is limited in any one location. Online tutoring removes that constraint entirely: your child can work with a teacher who knows the Cambridge syllabus in depth, has marked Cambridge papers, and understands exactly what’s rewarded — regardless of where that teacher is based.

    For families in Kuala Lumpur, Penang, Johor Bahru, or anywhere else in Malaysia, online tutoring via Zoom requires only a stable internet connection and a device — both of which are reliably available across the country. Sessions can be scheduled to suit Malaysian time zones, and the quality of instruction available online substantially exceeds what’s typically available locally for this specific subject.

    Time Zone Considerations

    Malaysia is in UTC+8. UK tutors operate on GMT (UTC+0 in winter, UTC+1 in summer). This means an evening session in Malaysia (7pm–8pm MYT) corresponds to an early morning in the UK (11am–12pm in summer, 12pm–1pm in winter). Many UK tutors offer these morning slots specifically for international students, and they’re often the most sought-after spots for families in Southeast Asia.

    When booking, confirm that the tutor is scheduling in your time zone — not theirs — so there’s no confusion about session times.

    What to Check Before You Book

    • Does the tutor specifically know Cambridge IGCSE (not just generic GCSE or international English)?
    • Have they worked as a Cambridge examiner or had direct training on Cambridge mark schemes?
    • What does a typical session look like — and is there individual feedback on written work between sessions?
    • What is the group size if it’s group tuition? (More than 8 students is effectively a class, not small-group tutoring.)
    • Is there a trial session before you commit?

    Thorogood English is run by Jacqueline Thorogood — a qualified English teacher and former Cambridge examiner, based in Malaysia — who offers Cambridge IGCSE English tuition online in small groups of up to 6 students. Classes open January 2027. Join the waiting list — or get in touch with any questions.

  • How to Build Your Child’s Confidence in English: A Practical Parent’s Guide

    English anxiety — the belief that you’re “not a words person,” that writing is something other people do well, that analysis is guesswork dressed up as insight — is genuinely common, and it has a significant effect on exam performance. Students who approach English with anxiety write cautiously, avoid creative risks, second-guess their own clear thinking, and underperform relative to their actual ability.

    The good news is that confidence in English, unlike aptitude for it, is genuinely within a parent’s power to influence. Here’s how.

    Talk About Books, Stories, and Language at Home

    Children who grow up in households where language is treated as interesting and worth discussing develop a relationship with words that is fundamentally different from children in households where it’s treated as a school subject. This doesn’t require anything elaborate or time-consuming — it’s as simple as mentioning what you’re reading, asking “did you enjoy that?” about a book, or commenting on a piece of writing you found striking.

    The message this sends is subtle but powerful: language is something we value, something we find interesting, something worth attending to. That message shapes how a child approaches an English lesson or an English exam — whether they see it as a test of something they care about, or a test of something alien to their experience.

    Praise the Thinking, Not Just the Grade

    When your child writes something and shows it to you, or tells you about an idea they had in a lesson, the most confidence-building response is engagement with the idea: “That’s a really interesting reading of the character — what made you think that?” rather than “Is that going to be enough for your essay?” or “What mark did you get?”

    Children whose intellectual contributions are taken seriously — whose ideas are engaged with rather than evaluated for correctness — develop the confidence to keep having ideas, to defend them under challenge, and to take the risks that English exams reward. Children whose responses are primarily evaluated for their grade learn to produce safe, forgettable answers that minimise the risk of being wrong.

    Let Them Be Wrong Without Catastrophe

    One of the most confidence-destroying things in English is the belief that there is one right answer and you either have it or you don’t. This is a misunderstanding of what English at IGCSE and A-Level tests — but it’s a very common one, reinforced whenever students are corrected abruptly or treated as wrong for offering an interpretation.

    Good English education teaches students that interpretation requires evidence and argument — that you can’t just say anything, but you can say many different things if you can support them. A student who understands this is far less anxious in an exam: they know that their job is to argue well, not to guess what the examiner thinks.

    At home, you can reinforce this by arguing about books and stories with genuine openness: “I thought the ending was sad, but maybe you’re right that it was hopeful — what makes you say that?” Modelling the possibility of different valid readings is one of the most valuable things a parent can do for an English student.

    Celebrate Small Progress

    English improves slowly and the improvements can feel invisible. A student who was writing comma-spliced sentences six months ago and has now stopped doesn’t feel the difference in the way they feel when they’ve memorised a new equation. But the improvement is real and significant, and making it visible — “your writing is much more confident than it was at the start of the year” — reinforces the belief that effort produces results, which is the foundation of confidence.

    If your child’s teacher or tutor provides written feedback, read it occasionally with your child. Not to police or pressure, but to celebrate the specific things they’ve improved on, and to understand what they’re working on. This turns feedback from a verdict into a roadmap — and students who understand their roadmap move along it much faster.


    At Thorogood English, building genuine confidence alongside academic skill is central to how we teach. Small groups mean every student feels known — not anonymous — and the culture is one of participation and intellectual curiosity, not performance anxiety. Join the waiting list for January 2027 classes.